Is it possible that there is an actual body language matrix that no one can see no one is aware off?

In this article I’m going to make you aware of a whole secret world that is going on without people actually being aware that it exists. When I take my clients and coaching clients and show them this and open their eyes to this whole New World of body language attraction, they cannot believe that they haven’Andt realized that it was actually happening for most of their life.

So what is the matrix or should I say body language attraction matrix?

Whenever we step outside the door to go to a bar, coffee shop or go shopping… We are unconsciously scanning everyone around us see what their body language is and showing about them. The moment you move you are an open book to everyone around you.

That 1st impression will tell a woman how confident you are, how good you are in bed and if you think you are a strong sexual male or you don’t feel you are worthy to attract women.

The same goes for men when they are looking at a glance at a woman and knowing in a split second if they are attracted to them or not… And this only takes a few seconds. This may sound harsh but this is the reality. When you’re walking women are scanning you to find out whether you are a strong confident sexual male… And it only takes 3 seconds. They simply connot help this… it comes preprogrammed into them.

Body Language attraction

Evolutionary biology shows us that women are triggered into being attracted to a man by unconscious signals that a man is showing them. The unconscious signals that they are looking for are: Protector… If you can protect them thousands of years ago against enemies. Are you a good Hunter… Can you provide for her in a harsh winter. And if you are a good sexual partner… Are you fertile and do you have good genetics.

The body language attraction matrix is a huge secret and no one knows about it when really it is happening every second of the day… And there is nothing you can do about it. The key to remember with this secret body language matrix is that the language is all in the movement. But it is crucial to understand that you cannot change your movement consciously.

Movement happens unconsciously, your body does not have to think about it. Therefore you have to change your movements unconsciously and that is why I developed my system for changing your body language unconsciously so that you trigger the attraction signals in a woman’s brain without ever having to think about it.

There are 5 key elements you need to work on to master the attraction only language matrix is…

Body Language attraction key areas…

1.  Stride length.If you have a short stride length women will be un-attracted to you, because the short striding shows a woman that you are restricted in the hips. Being tight in the hips is a sign you have tension in the sexual area of the body. It is also a sign of poor athletic ability which relates to being a hunter and a protector to a woman’s primal brain. This can be trained
2. Tension. Tension held in the body is a sign of lack of confidence. If you imagine under your skin you have a spider man suit, called your fascia which is connective tissue. Tension accumulates in the suit and the more you have the more it shows you cannot handle life. Tension is a sign of fear and the alpha male does not experience fear. If you imagine the alpha male lion in Africa he is extremely relaxed because he is the top dog he has no reason to be scared. All naturally attractive men who are experts in the body language attraction matrix have natural relaxed tone in their body. This can be trained.
3. Posture. We all know posture is important in showing confidence but everyone is giving the wrong advice on how to change it. If you try and think about changing your posture consciously you will create more attention and become less attractive to women. All work in the body language attraction matrix must be done without thinking about it… Unconsciously. This can be trained.
4. Rotation. When a man walks and he is confident and athletic and an alpha male, he will have a degree of rotation in his upper body this is coupled with side flexion and some front and back movement. This is a 3 dimensional movement is crucial in attracting women. However you cannot think it… it must be natural and it must be trained.
5. Speed. The speed of your movement shows if you are confident or not, in the body language attraction matrix. This is an easy one to change you just have to slow down. Confident men do not need to hurry about they are in charge. So to change the speed of your movements you can slow down consciously but it is important to work on your mind and to slow down your thoughts and work on your beliefs.

These are just 5 of the most important factors to work on there are much more. I would suggest you go out into the street and sit and have a coffee and start to see what signs and signals are people giving off in the language attraction matrix. Remember the moment you walk and move you are an open book to women. And this happens in a split second… My question to you is what do you want them to read about you and your book cover?

The body language attraction matrix is extremely real and women are experts at reading you… Now that you are NEO… Go out and enjoy the new reality.

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“So, first of all, you’ve got to realise that the left brain analyses the raw data that you receive and decides what information is relative to our continued survival. All other data is suppressed. Though perceived or recorded, it does not pass the gatekeeper of our left brain and remains hidden in the dark recesses of our subconscious awareness.’

He carries on… ‘The conscious mind performs like a shutter. It takes very fast pictures and then places the information together seamlessly so you don’t notice, just like the movies where the action is not actually a flow of movement but a series of static slides. If we are looking at an object or information we can only consciously use less than 0.01% of the visible electromagnetic spectrum our eyes can detect. We cannot visually detect simultaneous channels of information because our left brain processes information in a series format – one slide at a time.’

“This is why we can only process 7, plus or minus 2 bits of data a second, whereas our right brain is much, much faster and it can view millions of bits of data in the same second.”
So when you’re crossing the road, you’re not looking at all the bits of gravel and stones that are on the road; you’re only looking for the most important bits. Your brain is scanning for the things that are going to cause you harm… or put bluntly… to die.

Those are the only important bits. If we picked up every piece of information that we saw in our surroundings we’d go crazy because there’s just billions of pieces of information, so what the brain does is it takes in about 15% of what we see and then the other 85% we make up about our environment just because it’s quicker, it’s efficient, and because… otherwise we’d be exhausted.

85% of what you see is simply made up from our past experiences.

So when a client tells me ‘Oh, women don’t look at me’ what he’s doing in his reality is that, from his past experiences of say, a few nights out, where he went out and he didn’t see any women looking at him… he’s worn the “Not Attractive Mindset Goggles” every time he has gone out in his life.

So his belief is ‘I’m not attractive’ and so everything he sees is being filtered to back up the belief that women don’t find him attractive.

He’s literally scanning for all the information that validates that belief and makes up the rest in his mind, Amazingly He CANNOT see women looking at him!!!… what you see, and what I see, and what other people see is really just made up. It’s not actually what is happening.

You need to start looking for what is different not what is the same. When I work with clients, I make an exercise or adjustment with my hands and then look for what is different. This is crucial as the mind always, always looks for what is the same!!!

What I’m saying is just be open. Just be open to another reality when you go out… that it IS possible that women are actually looking at you but they’re better at hiding it than men… because men stare when they are interested and women do not.

Use my Code exercises to speed up this process as women can’t help but be attracted to your body and your movement. This creates a shift in your beliefs about yourself. Don’t put it off… this system works super fast and you will never lose the investment… ATTRACT WOMEN FOR LIFE… How Much Is That Worth?

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Maybe there are signals that they’re giving off like the way they touch their hair, or the way they position themselves that shows interest, in their way, that they’re attracted to you. Just be open. Let go of your past reality and just for once, go out and say… “tonight I am open to whatever experience is there’ and just let go and see what happens.”

The more you notice women being attracted to you… even if it starts by a single glance… you will slowly start to erode your limiting beliefs about your presence in a social situation and you will begin to access a reality of women being attracted to you.

The one rule… don’t try and force this… just be open to other possible outcomes and let go.

I put in some cool little videos below just to show you that what we actually see might not be what another person sees and to kind of back up this point that what we see through our eyes is probably not the actual reality that is out there. So don’t believe what you see

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Well, this is pretty much what happens… when a thought pops into my head and I believe it… my body reacts physically to it. From my muscles tensing or drooping to changes on a cellular level.

Paul Chek describes this well…
Our bodies have an in-built survival mechanism. You may know this as the flight or fight response, a response mechanism that served us well in pre-historic times when faced with a bear or lion – stay and fight or run away to safety. Faced with a bear or lion, our body released cortisol, a stress hormone that prepared the body to stay and fight or run away.
The stress response caused elevated heart rate and blood pressure, increased sweating, blood moved from internal organs to skin and muscles in preparation for fight or flight and digestive and eliminating functions were slowed or stopped.

Made sense if you’re running from a bear or lion and you’ve probably experienced some of these symptoms when suddenly faced with a frightening or challenging situation but the difference between pre-historic times and today is that once the danger had passed, our bodies reverted to a balanced state.

But what happens when the thoughts we think stay…. Stewing and brewing in our minds. We fully believe that we are not good enough, we won’t have enough money to pay the bills or we are not attractive to others.
Well the body reacts as described above and over time the body holds these thought patterns in the body. Makes sense doesn’t it. The body picks up the habit of slouching or tightening because it is super efficient. It doesn’t matter if the thought was true or not… the body simply follows faithfully.

So when I meet a client or analyze someone’s body language… their beliefs are there to be read simply by looking at their body and movement.

So what can you do to undo years of stinkin´ thinkin´?
Well to start with you can question your thoughts. Trust me on this… whenever you feel bad or fearful you are believing a lie. I use Byron Katies The work which is quick and effective at neutralizing negative beliefs. I keep a pen and paper by my bed to do it, as for me, before bed is when my mind likes to mess with me.

Secondly… change the pattern that holds your body. Remember your thoughts have shaped your body like water running down a mountain. Use my Code system to reshape your posture, tension and movement so that it tells your mind… HEY!!! I AM CONFIDENT. Your mind will reshape to follow your body.

I’ll say that again… Your mind will reshape to follow your body.

It’s not the events of our lives that shape us, but our beliefs as to what those events mean. Tony Robbins.
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A few years ago it dawned on me, from analyzing my friends who were amazing at attracting women, that the best pick up artists and Naturals actually show the same low tone and body language as amazing athletes.
Decreasing the tension in your body is CRUCIAL for your interactions with women but also in becoming a natural, charismatic leader of people. It will also help decrease stress, help the sensual side of your relationships and of course help you score… more goals in soccer.

This may seem too simple but I ask you to check out women who are sexy and men who are amazing with women… and you will see this low tone, relaxed body langauge.

If you want me to personally analyze your body language and show you how to fast track your ability to attract women then you have to book a 1 on 1 skype analysis with me… I really love them and you will learn more in that one call with me than 1 year of trying to work it out yourself. Oh and you’ll really enjoy it too.

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A great way to release this tension in your body language is to stand and rub your feet on a tennis ball. This simple trick helps loosen a back line of connective tissue that actually links up with your neck muscles thus improving your posture, walk and overall tone. This connective tissue is just like having your own spider man suit under your body… if you get any restrictions or tightness in it… it will affect the whole suit… and very definately your body language.

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A very quick and simple way to start to break down this tension in your body so you give off an attraction body language vibe is the tennis ball rub. Make sure to test yourself before and after the exercise.

I stumbled upon Cesar Millan’s (aka The dog Whisperer) work a few years ago and think he is amazing. I love the way he studies and corrects the owners as much, if not more, than their dogs.

Energy
One of his main points when working with the owners is the energy they project. Dogs are extremely sensitive to the energy/vibe that humans give off and react accordingly. If you are nervous or tight in your body language, the dog picks up on it and becomes nervous and tight as well.

Women and other people are no different to dogs, women especially pick up on your energy when you enter a room. If you are nervous they will feel it on a deep level and react by probably ignoring you.
Women like confident guys and like a salesman if you like what you are selling (yourself) you will be confident in selling it. If you’re selling something you’re not happy with you will give off that vibe.

Body language
Your energy and your body language are pretty much the same thing. As Tony Robbins always says “you must change your body to change your state which will then change your beliefs.”

Dogs that are submissive, hold themselves in a closed stated with their ears back and their tails between their legs. Watch most guys enter a bar or café and watch what their body language is saying… I bet more than 90% are giving off a submissive unconfident energy.

Remember you are an open book to be read the moment you move!!

Compare this to a calm assertive body language of a guy who is laid back and confident. Strong but not aggressive. Acting like your tough is a defense mechanism that shows weakness not strength.
A dog would not like someone with aggressive assertive energy and see them as unstable. Women are the same as dogs in this respect unless they are unstable too and then they would probably like you.:)

“The most important thing that we have to provide every day is that we are the pack leader, that we set the rules, the boundaries and the limitations, and then we love. Most of the people, they go to get a dog because they need somebody to love. So they are going after what they need, not what the dog needs. And that, to me, creates instability immediately, and the dog sees the human as a soft energy. So they don’t follow the lovable leader or a spiritual leader; they follow a dominant one.”
Cesar Millan quote

People and especially women are the same. They are drawn to the power of a calm assertive leader. CAL’s have a presence and energy that is magnetic (charismatic). Animals feel this energy instinctively and understand they are in the presence of true strength.

Women crave this stability and strength. A man that is insecure/ jealous or doesn’t have boundaries and doesn’t lead will cause the woman to become resentful. Same with a dog, if you don’t show leadership it will become anxious and nervous and unhappy.

This doesn’t mean you treat others or women in a pushy way and try and dominate them. No, that again just shows fear and weakness. Allow them to be who they truly are or in the case of dogs, allow them to be experience being a dog, their true nature.

It means setting your boundaries and showing others that you have rules and values that you adhere to and you are not a pushover.

For me the quickest way to access the body language and energy of a calm assertive leader is by doing my Code work. You can literally change your posture and body language in less than 5 minutes work a day… and I promise you this… it won’t be just dogs treating you differently but hopefully women won’t be sniffing your groins when you walk down the street.

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I did a great interview with Jorge about his thoughts on movement and attraction and was interested to hear how actors can change their movement pretty much by choice.

In this video I’ve posted, Jorge shows me how he mixes up different hand and leg positions to really work the chest so that it not only makes your pecs look great… but also how to keep your movement in ‘Flow’ so you stay attractive to women.

Dynamic Body Language

This looseness to your body tells the world that you are open, relaxed, calm, unfazed by life, balanced, powerful in the true sense of the word and much more. I also discovered that Naturals or men who find attracting women easy and never think about it have extremely low tension in their spiderman suits.

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The opposite, tension in the body, which unfortunately most men fall into (me included before I created my system), tells the world and women that you are fearful, uncomfortable in your own skin, not in touch with your body, sexually repressed, awkward, beta male etc…

Oh and by the way… women scan you for this in the first 3 seconds of seeing you. Trust me they are more sensitive to this than frogs before an earthquake.(errr bit of a geeky analogy sorry) at being able to detect this.

I think I saw an article recently about the 10 sexiest males as voted by women… and you guessed it, they all had low tone except for one which was Matt Damon, who has fairly low tone but tight hips… but he was the most famous male in the group which was probably why he slipped in.

This spiderman suit thing can be seen in athletes too… the best have the lowest tone. The Gracies in MMA have super low tone, Federer is like a floppy rubber band but super powerful and of course great. One of the hardest punches I have seen in boxing was Prince Naseem and he had super relaxed tone. Mohamed Ali just sprang to mind.

Michael Jorden goes without saying and just look at Usian Bolt… Mr Loose Body Language. I studied with Michael Jordan’s Physical Therapist for 1 year and if you want to get the same exercises he used go to here now.

Another example of the power of low tone and relaxation is Fedor Emelianenko, the world champion MMA fighter and what I love
about this guy is how relaxed he is compared to all the tight, muscle bound fighters (Muscle “Bound” says it all). His muscle tone and connective tissue is so relaxed he is able to fully use his muscles torque to generate power.
He has been criticized for carrying too much fat but this just backs up my point that when the body is fully relaxed and able to fully contract and importantly fully expand… you have a natural athlete… tight muscles create resistance to high performance (and ladies).
Some fighters say they have never been hit so hard!!!

This physical tone will also reflect his mind as he is super cool… bet he is a natural with the ladies .

This is just one key factor in getting body language that attracts women and tells the world you are confident… so get started now with changing yours.

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Well they do tell you how to change it…” think about it and keep thinking about it until it changes!!!”.

The only problem with that… and it’s a serious one… is that the moment you think about changing the way you stand or move you give of unnatural signals. CREEPY to women.

I repeat….the moment you think about changing the way you stand or move you give of unnatural signals… and women immediately recognize this as being in-congruent= unattractive.

Movement is the thing that body language experts never cover… errr and that’s a bit of a problem if you want to get around in a café or bar or actually walk up to women.. Unfortunately, movement has not been really looked at by scientists  because it is harder to analyze in experiments and people move in so many ways.

However there are principles to male movement and especially the walk that when shown naturally create HUGE attraction in women. They simply can’t help it.

It doesn’t matter about your looks or how much money you earn… women are triggered by this through evolutionary biology. It’s hard wired into their brains.

The main physical triggers that switch the attraction trigger on in women are…

• Relaxation

• Posture

• Rotation

• Stride length

• Flow and
  

• Tempo

These qualities tick deep unconscious triggers in women’s unconscious minds that tell her you are a good hunter, fertile and powerful.

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The Hidden Secret That Women Won’t Admit Too…

The hub of your walk action takes place at the hips. When your hips move in the correct way it is literally like an atom bomb going off in a woman’s brain. When a man’s hips don’t show these qualities and 95% plus of men don’t… women quite simply ignore you on a sexual attraction level.

If you know the correct moves to release tension in this area… your ability to attract women increases in some cases by 300%.

Recent research shows that when erotic photos are shown to groups of subjects, men and women will look at both the genital/hip area and the face within the first few seconds… but in what order!!!
This is surprising… Men looked at the face first then the hip area but women looked at the genital/hip area first!!!
Women are instinctively drawn to your hips…. Fact.
In Fact in all the studies and polls done on what women prefer in men… the hips, buttocks, stomach and the ‘manhood’ are all in the top 4 places out of 10. Not the arms or the chest etc…

That blew my mind when I first heard it… women will not admit to it but your hips are your secret weapon.

Don’t get me wrong you may start talking to the women and get to know her and create comfort with her and then win her around… that happens… but if the initial SPARK was not there it will make things much harder and in most cases… it will simply never happen.

“Attraction is not a choice” David Deangelo.

In fact I realized that this was a key reason that men were not attracting women sexually… their hips were too tight and shut down.

This is why I created a product aimed at creating massive attraction from your hips by releasing the sexual tension that so many men hold in this region and they don’t know how to get rid of… well actually most men don’t know they have this problem. I know this product is the best thing on the market for sparking sexual attraction with women but my problem is getting guys to realize that they don’t have waste so much time on fancy clothes and pick up lines… when they use this for less than 5 minutes a day… they literally have an unfair advantage over other men.

It is hands down one of the number 1 reasons guys are not meeting and attracting women more easily because it affects how they move, what they look like and how they trigger the instinctive attraction button in women.

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This is surprising… Men looked at the face first then the hip area but women looked at the genital/hip area first!!!

Women are instinctively drawn to your hips…. Fact.

In Fact in all the studies and polls done on what women prefer in men… the hips, buttocks, stomach and the ‘manhood’ are all in the top 4 places out of 10. Not the arms or the chest etc…

This is why I have created a new product aimed at creating massive attraction from your hips by releasing the sexual tension that huge number of men have in this region that they don’t know how to get rid of… It is one of the number 1 reasons you are not meeting and attracting women more easily because it affects how they move, what they look like and how they trigger the instinctive attraction button in women.

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Enjoy this powerful course… it is very effective at giving you a confident sexual movement when you walk.

cheers Rob

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I understand the exercises will free up my pelvis but what am I aiming for ideally?

I look forward to hearing from you,

Kind regards

Nigel

Hi Nigel,

Your question about the walk is a very good one. It made me realize
that I haven’t really explained what is ideal.

To answer you question… it is very personal to the individual because
everyone has a different body. However their are 5 principles to a great
walk… Relaxation, rotation at hips and shoulders, low tension in
connective tissue and a slower speed. Also a little bounce is great which shows
an efficient walk and fascial/spiderman suit system.

If you follow my exercises you will not have to think about these…they
will happen automatically.

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Very Important… you must not think about walking well!!! let the reprogramming from my exercises do their job

If you think about walking cool… women will put you in the CREEPY ZONE

George Clooney in the clips below shows a great walk see my comments above the videos of
what he is showing.

hope that helps

cheers and thanks for the great question

Rob

In this first video George is displaying everything for a good walk

Good posture… head upright and shoulders are relaxed, his whole body is easy and relaxed.

Stride length… crucial to displaying flow in hips… even when he speeds up his walk he still has a long stride.

Rotation… his torso has good rotation when he moves… although he has more rotation to the right with a possible pelvis rotation to the left and this may be coming from his left leg when its behind him or most probably from an old injury to his right leg which is more noticeable in the second video.

Bounce… he has a little bounce… good mindset, confident and happy guy, also shows good spring from good bio-mechanics.

In this second video, George shows again good presence with his movement and walk but you can see he collapses into his right leg and spends more time on his left leg when he walks and rotates more to the right with his upper body.

However this asymmetry is not a problem because he has low tone, good posture and good mobility/stability in his hips. This flow in the hips is crucial for attracting women and portraying and confident masculine walk… if you haven’t already got it I still have my 50% discount off on my Turn Her On Hip release program until the end of January.

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